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How do I prevent hazing and build positive traditions instead?

Replace hazing with intentional positive traditions. Every program will have traditions — the coach decides whether they turn negative or build the team.

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Replace hazing by putting positive traditions in its place — deliberately. Bruce Brown teaches that every program will have traditions; the only question is whether they are negative (hazing) or positive, and which path yours takes is the coach's responsibility. Hazing survives on one mentality: "This is what was done to me, and now it is my turn and my right to do it to someone else, and I am going to add on a little bit." It crosses quickly from harmless to harmful or illegal. Provide the alternative path: intentional traditions that welcome new members, bond teammates and coaches, reward the behaviors that build a better team, and support your core covenants — then let your seniors pass them on.

Why does hazing happen on sports teams?

From the athlete's perspective it is simple: it was done to me, now it is my turn — and I will add on a little bit. Left to chance, that becomes an unstated negative tradition. Each year about one and a half million high school athletes report being "welcomed" by initiation.

How should you welcome new team members instead?

Your team leaders reach out first. They introduce new members to teammates, walk them through your core covenants — "the way we do things in this culture" — and share team history so newcomers see the path into the inner circle. Do it in the first meetings and practices, by design, not accident.

What makes a tradition positive?

Positive traditions exist to bond teammates and coaches, reward behaviors that make a better team, support your core covenants, and have fun. Explain the lesson behind each tradition when you introduce it. Once traditions are established, let your seniors introduce them to younger players — that ownership is where real leadership grows.

That is the what — for the how, read Bruce Brown's 101 Positive Athletic Traditions in the library with a free 7-day trial or an individual membership — $180/year.

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