Fine line between support, encouragement, involvement and interference – need to identify and confront interference EARLY – almost all adults mean well, very few are really sure how to really help
First of all - see their side…
- When they start out in athletics it is a "joint venture" (we are doing this together, and they need us to be involved) it is a tie, a level of communication, something to you are supposed to do –
- the parents who have kids that aren't interested or aren't good enough gradually find other things –
- the parents that have kids who have some success see athletics as maybe their best link with their kids, and it is because of their "expertise" and their self image –